Read on for eight faux pas to avoid when giving a gift and what you should do instead. The purest form of giving is rooted in generosity, not anticipation.”AdvertisementShe emphasized that gifting is not about expectations but about giving freely. Giving A Thoughtless Present“Rude behavior involves giving a thoughtless gift,” said Diane Gottsman, an etiquette expert, author of “Modern Etiquette for a Better Life” and founder of The Protocol School of Texas. Giving An Uncomfortable Gift“Refrain from giving personal and intimate gifts ― lingerie, robe, fragrance and the list goes on,” Vernon-Thompson advised. Giving The Gift At An Inappropriate TimeThere’s etiquette in your choice of gift-giving timing as well.