A recurring theme each year is that sex is important and we should all try to have it*. In a much-read Modern Love, Karin Jones shares what she learned by having affairs with married men: “What surprised me was that these husbands weren’t looking to have more sex. They were looking to have any sex.”Which isn’t to suggest that if you don’t have sex your partner will cheat, but just to confirm what we all basically know: Sex is good for humans (and their relationships). The story: “What Sleeping With Married Men Taught Me About Infidelity”by Karin JonesRelated: “When the Cause of a Sexless Relationship Is — Surprise! — the Man”by Jen Gunter*In ways that are entirely consensual, of course.

Source: New York Times December 27, 2018 09:56 UTC