But the thing is, it was a decision to stop putting the next chapter on hold. It was a decision to stop trying to have one more moment together to get it right. Because if we already feel heartbroken, if we already feel that this is hell, what will being without him feel like? It’s a decision to no longer fool yourself into thinking that you can incentivize someone into pulling themselves together. Because you know you don’t want convenience, you want commitment, don’t entertain the feelings that may surface.

Source: Huffington Post March 18, 2019 18:56 UTC