Distance creates relationship difficulty. I worry that the young woman is just using him to get out of an impoverished life in her country. Now, in adulthood, your son’s life choices have accelerated past your ability to understand and control them. My sister leaves the children with my mom for the summer and during weekends throughout the year. But also understand that because there are young children involved, your mother may feel both taken advantage of, and duty-bound, as she tries to help.

Source: Washington Post September 10, 2018 04:41 UTC