Dear Carolyn: We're planning a small, casual wedding in our backyard. My fiancee's family have now offered to pay for a catered barbecue since they're appalled by the potluck idea. My fiancee wants to accept, but I'm standing firm on principle, since they're trying to shame me for my long-standing traditions. Dear Carolyn: Nearly two years ago, I took the dream job I'd been trying to get for years. Write to Carolyn Hax at tellme@washpost.com.

Source: Washington Post June 08, 2020 02:26 UTC