I feel like I am going to be blamed forever for the divorce, as if I am the only one who got it. “I am going to be blamed forever for the divorce” is not a full reckoning. This would have been one: “I feel like I am going to be blamed forever for the affair.” Right? And yes, you cheated with somebody, somebody related to your husband (ugh), but that somebody still wasn’t married to your husband. Maybe a private card from ex to ex, just to say, "I'm so sorry for your loss, for both you and your wife."

Source: Washington Post September 28, 2020 03:56 UTC