Your fiance may see things more clearly than you do right now — in fact, I think we can safely assume it — and he may prove to be right that this is an emotional trap for you. The foundation is there for sure: The short version of your ex’s story is that he was content to maintain his own comfort at your expense. An emotional two days are certainly enough to suck you back into familiar roles.
Source: Washington Post May 13, 2021 03:56 UTC