I think the main thing I always like to say about boundaries is that they are guides for yourself. They are there for us to know what we’re doing with our lives, and for people to know what we are doing with our lives. One thing that people often miss about boundaries is that it’s important to match what you’re saying with what you’re doing, because where our boundaries falter quite often is in the doing. There has to be a move towards more queer spaces in order to meet more queer people. For instance, examining what feels comforting about your friends and the spaces that you’re in and what feels scary about moving into those queer spaces?

Source: The Times February 13, 2024 08:24 UTC