Him: If you made more of an effort to be more feminine, I would be more attracted to you. Him: If you were more detail oriented about how you do things, I would find you more attractive. AD— ConfusedConfused: I can’t conceive of wanting intimacy with someone who says things like this to anyone, much less a spouse. Something like: You and he had years of happiness before the need for rekindling, a shared sense of purpose. Of course, his indirect message to you also makes it pretty clear where you stand in your marriage: alone.

Source: Washington Post August 26, 2020 04:04 UTC