Though Christmas can be an amazing time to bring family that usually live apart together, the BBC said that some “primal forces” can make those ’dos uniquely stressful. So, when does being kind to “difficult” family members go against maintaining our own healthy boundaries? And what does kindness mean in the context of tense family disagreements? “When Christmas Day arrives, and things start to feel tense, having a plan helps,” Dr Chheda said. If you feel that something is not in your best interest – at Christmas and any other time of the year – don’t do it.

Source: Huffington Post December 09, 2025 06:07 UTC