I’ve been having sex regularly with a married man for about 10 years. We are intellectually matched and get on very well, but neither of us want the relationship to be anything more than it is. I work overseas a lot and having him to satisfy me when I am back is perfect. There must be others, both the single lover and the married one, who have had a similar experience. Email: private.lives@theguardian.com (please don’t send attachments).

Source: The Guardian September 16, 2016 11:00 UTC