That moment was one of many efforts to reshape me into a version of Black womanhood palatable to predominantly white nonprofits. What feels subtle to others is glaringly apparent to Black women — it is our daily reality. Tema Okun’s work on white supremacy culture shows how perfectionism, fear of conflict, and control thrive in progressive organizations. The moment I understood that no matter how much I code-switch, smile, submit or adapt, I will never be the right kind of Black woman. Because she doesn’t exist; she was imagined to keep Black women quiet.

Source: Huffington Post October 13, 2025 13:08 UTC