Until now, I’ve always dated men who are up to 10 years older than me. I don’t want to give up on this lovely man, but how can I overcome the age difference? I’ve never had an issue in previous relationships with staying sexually aroused, but since being with him I’ve struggled to do so. At first, I thought it was me and that maybe I was going through a premenopausal stage, but I’m finding that other older men still arouse me. • If you would like advice from Pamela on sexual matters, send us a brief description of your concerns to private.lives@theguardian.com (please don’t send attachments).

Source: The Guardian January 07, 2020 07:52 UTC