Q My new boyfriend, who is in his early thirties, uses some very laddish language to describe sex. He refers to “shagging”, for example, and uses other blunt-sounding ways to describe various sex acts. I don’t expect him to be a poet, but I find this sort of directness unappealing. A You need to tell your boyfriend that his sexual vocabulary is a turn-off. It is best to do this outside the bedroom at a time when both of you are feeling relaxed.

Source: The Times May 21, 2021 23:00 UTC