(Image: parentingcoach/TikTok)She said: "Do you want to know why your kids don't listen until you finally yell and lose your s**t? "Now, I'm not pointing my finger at you and I'm not blaming you, but kids will do what works because they're born needing to push boundaries until boundaries are found. "If you ask nicely, you give reminders, you nag and then you finally yell, they learn that they don't need to listen when you ask the first time, they don't need to listen when you're nagging or reminding or you're asking nicely multiple times. "They listen when a boundary is set and that boundary is set when you yell." Your kid don't listen to you cause you raised them that way."

Source: Daily Mirror May 22, 2021 16:50 UTC