But my husband has now told me he wants a threesome. But he still wants to see other people; he understands that it will destroy me, and so wants my permission. There’s nothing wrong with a polyamorous relationship, if that’s what you want, but there’s nothing wrong with wanting a monogamous relationship, either. At the moment it sounds as if your husband wants something that’s incompatible with your happiness,” Neves added. Don’t be bamboozled into saying yes to something you don’t agree with: doing this won’t be the end of your problems, only the beginning of new ones.

Source: The Guardian May 14, 2021 13:52 UTC