He thinks I still enjoy sex with him – in reality, it bores me stiff and leaves me cold. The reason has to be the menopause, although I had so few symptoms that I scarcely feel I’ve been through it. My husband and I always made time to enjoy adventurous sex. My husband will soon turn 60, so surely at some point he will join me in the peaceful post-sexual world? • Each week, a reader tells us about their sex life.

Source: The Guardian December 04, 2020 09:56 UTC