When you have been around men who treat you like one on a long list of options, being around a nice guy doesn’t raise any flags. The nice guy should raise red flags, especially if he is self-appointed one. THE PROBLEM WITH THE NICE GUYWhile we could all do with one of those noble, loving and generous men, the problem with the self-appointed nice guy is that he extends love and kindness to you with expectations. The nice guy may come off as the answer to all your man problems but he really isn’t the man you want to be in a relationship with. Just make sure that the nice man you choose isn’t constantly seeking reward for his good behaviour.

Source: Daily Nation November 25, 2016 19:17 UTC