Either way, you’re upset and don’t understand how someone who you’re so close with could hurt you so deeply. AdvertisementHowever, if you do decide to end a relationship, Francis said there are two words you should always keep in mind as you’re doing it. “The shortcut that I always give is ‘clear and kind’ — be as clear as you can, be as kind as you can,” she explained. We are sensitive — but we’re not fragile in that way, and we’re actually owed the respect of clarity. And so [be] clear and kind.”Francis added that being “clear and kind” is actually a gift for the person you’re leaving.

Source: Huffington Post February 19, 2026 15:08 UTC