My partner of five months says she enjoys sex with me more than she did with her previous partnerI’ve been dating a woman for about five months now, and I’m extremely happy. But she recently said that her boyfriend prior to me was “extremely well endowed.” She actually brought it up to note that it was sometimes uncomfortable to have sex with him – and made it clear that she enjoyed sex with me more – but I can’t stop worrying. Don’t let your misplaced sense of competition or jealously get in the way of enjoying your “happy”, “best sex ever” relationship. • Pamela Stephenson Connolly is a psychotherapist who specialises in treating sexual disorders. • If you would like advice from Pamela Stephenson Connolly on sexual matters, send us a brief description of your concerns to private.lives@theguardian.com (please don’t send attachments).

Source: The Guardian August 14, 2017 06:30 UTC