I believe he is addicted to cannabis, which he says he needs to combat his anxiety. He doesn’t work and has episodes of rage. He threatens me, saying things such as: “I don’t want to live any more,” which keeps me awake at night. • If you would like fellow readers to respond to a dilemma of yours, send us an outline of the situation of about 150 words. Email private.lives@theguardian.com (please don’t send attachments).

Source: The Guardian January 10, 2020 12:00 UTC