As Valentine's Day approaches, researchers may have discovered the best way to avoid an awkward date night argument by simply asking one question. The research suggested that the person being asked the question feels less negativity, becomes more open-minded to opposing viewpoints, and even sees those holding conflicting opinions more favorably. On a date, especially early ones in a new relationship, differences in opinions can pop up fast. However, the research suggested that, instead of just immediately sharing why you think the opposite, ask your date a similar question, such as 'I'd love to hear more about what draws you to that.' When researchers tested how showing interest affected each student, the chat partner's response included a question such as 'I was interested in what you’re saying.

Source: Daily Mail February 08, 2026 16:32 UTC